I know I'm going to miss some things, but figured I should record some new milestones. Anne is 23 months old. These are the things she's doing now. Some of these things she's been doing for a couple of months, actually.
* Singing songs like Baa Baa Black Sheep, Wheels on the Bus, ABC's, and Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. Over and over and over and over....
* Dressing herself (except shirts, those are still difficult for her) and choosing her own clothes to wear every day.
* Bathing herself (except her back. Mommy still gets that)
* Using the potty with only the occasional wet accident here and there.
* Talking in 5-6 word sentences on a regular basis.
* Demanding that she do everything herself. "Anne do it!!" is all we hear lately.
* No longer breastfeeding. Our last session was about 6 days before she turned 23 months. Anne was probably not ready, as she still cries for it when I get home from work sometimes, but Mommy was ready. She's getting used to it though because I still snuggle her as soon as I walk in the door and I think she's realizing that's what she really wants anyway.
* Playing with stuffed animals and dolls and having "conversations" with them.
* Requesting to spend time at Mimi and Papa's house. She can't get enough of Kristian's parents.
* Still sleeping on a mattress next to our bed. I'm not ready to move her to her own room yet.
* Drinking out of real cups (instead of sippy cups). Pretty good at using utensils and actually prefers them over using her hands most of the time. Likes broccoli, peas, carrots, and corn and that's about it for veggies. Sausage is still her favorite meat. And of course she loves mac&cheese (what kid doesn't??).
* Knows some letters of the alphabet, but not all and is not consistent with telling them to us. Knows all of her standard colors and some shapes.
* Can color small pictures and mostly stay in the lines (when she wants to lol)
* Loves to help us do things like bring in groceries and put the dishes away
* Likes to play with cars
* Likes to tease me and Kristian with who is her favorite for the day. For example, we will ask her if she is "Mommy's sweet girl," and she will often respond "Daddy's sweet girl!"
* Seems to be enjoying Bible class but still won't let me leave her in there by herself for the whole time. Working on that.
* Can "help" me read a book if it's one she's heard a million times. I will read part of a sentence and let her finish it. She can do this with Chester, Corduroy, Thunderhoof, Dora : Day at the Beach, etc.
* Loves to play at the park on swings and slides. Still not much of a climber though.
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Friday, August 3, 2012
The Potty Marathon and Beyond (part 2)
Or otherwise known as three of the most stressful days of my life, but it was successful so I guess it was worth it.
Friday was nothing but accidents. I can't remember if we had a successful trip before bedtime now or not, it's such a blur, but every other time was an accident. Two things I had to do differently from the method I found on Pinterest : (1) I put Anne in undies, not let her run around naked. For one, I don't have linoleum or tile floors, I have carpet. The undies helped keep a handle on the mess (though still not great, but better than nothing). For two, she didn't want to be naked, she wanted to wear the undies and it wasn't worth fighting her over; and (2) because Anne refuses to sit on the kid potty, we didn't have the option of staying in one room with a potty in the middle of the floor for her to run over to. Fortunately Anne is very verbal already, so we worked on her telling us she needed to go and then we would run to the bathroom. Or we would run as soon as she started to have an accident.
A tip for carpeted floors: cover the floor in baby blankets or towels in the rooms you plan to stay in. Whenever Anne had an accident, I could just pick up that small blanket or towel and throw it in the wash, and it helped keep most of the mess off the carpet. I still feel like I need to steam clean my whole house, but it definitely helped.
Saturday showed some improvement but it was a roller coaster of Anne cooperating with sitting on the potty and screaming and crying whenever we set foot in the bathroom, despite the fact that she had told me she needed to go. The first time she fought me like this, I gave in and we went back downstairs...and she had an accident 5 minutes later. So for the rest of the day, whenever she said she had to go but then tried to back out of it, we hung out in the bathroom until she either gave in and sat or started to have an accident. There were times that we didn't leave the bathroom for 45 minutes because Anne has master bladder control and would hold it just to try to avoid sitting on the potty. Fortunately for both of us, I'm more stubborn than she is. But at the end of the day we were getting more pee in the potty than out of it, so I felt like we were making progress.
Another thing that helped other than hanging out in the bathroom (and therefore inches from the toilet in case she started to go) was that I took a baby doll meant for the bathtub and filled it with water and let the water drain out into the kid potty. The drain hole is conveniently located to simulate peeing. So I would let the baby doll "pee" into the kid potty and then I would praise the baby. "Good job, baby! You peed in the potty! yay!" Anne thought this was the best game ever, and I think it gave her a visual to see what we were trying to accomplish. Regardless, she seemed more cooperative after we started doing that.
Sunday was much like Saturday, but with less accidents, and less time spent hanging out in the bathroom before she would agree to sit on the potty. Still a lot of resistance when I would take her into the bathroom though and that was extremely frustrating. Then we went to Kristian's parents' house and Anne walked right in and peed like she'd been doing it her whole life and I felt much better that she got the concept and knew how to do it, even if she was being stubborn. I also discovered that part of Anne's resistance was that she didn't like me just swooping in and pulling her pants down and putting her on the potty. She wanted to be in control so I started telling her to tell me when she was "ready" after we got into the bathroom, and encouraging her to use the step stool. This made a world of difference. The sticker board and glow bracelets also continue to be a huge hit.
Monday morning I felt confident in sending Anne to school in undies, though I was prepared for her to have several accidents (the teachers had warned me that her first week would probably be a little rough). She did ok her first day, but not great. More accidents than anything else. Tuesday was the same. Wednesday, however, she had no wet accidents, only poop. Thursday was the same as Wednesday.
And then today...today I got Anne to poop in the potty and I couldn't have been happier. This time I had to do the naked method. She tried to go, got up, and I just left her undies off because I knew she'd been holding it all day. Sure enough it worked, within 5 minutes she was wanting to go back to the potty. I just reassured her that I knew she could do it and we just waited and it happened. She was so excited to finally get a "poop prize" and she wanted me to read her "Princess of the Potty" book again...and then called herself a "Potty Princess." I think she recognized that she had finally done everything the girl in the book does. Here's hoping that once is all it took to convince her that using the potty for #2 is not only something she *can* do, but something she prefers doing.
She also went potty at the park, and got out of the tub halfway through her bath to avoid peeing in the tub. Today is day 3 of no wet accidents, and day 1 of zero accidents at all. I don't want to jinx it, but I think it might be safe to say that I have successfully potty trained my 21 month old daughter :-) It took about 8 days total (4 of which were at daycare). But I think those initial 3 days were crucial. Granted, we still have night training, but she's been staying dry at night since she discovered she has control of her own bladder. So I'm thinking that might be a breeze...hoping anyway. :-)
Best tip I got : Put her in underwear and go for it. Definitely worked and we didn't have a long drawn out process with pull-ups. Everything else was tailoring the process to my daughter's personality and needs.
I am a happy and proud mommy :-D
Friday was nothing but accidents. I can't remember if we had a successful trip before bedtime now or not, it's such a blur, but every other time was an accident. Two things I had to do differently from the method I found on Pinterest : (1) I put Anne in undies, not let her run around naked. For one, I don't have linoleum or tile floors, I have carpet. The undies helped keep a handle on the mess (though still not great, but better than nothing). For two, she didn't want to be naked, she wanted to wear the undies and it wasn't worth fighting her over; and (2) because Anne refuses to sit on the kid potty, we didn't have the option of staying in one room with a potty in the middle of the floor for her to run over to. Fortunately Anne is very verbal already, so we worked on her telling us she needed to go and then we would run to the bathroom. Or we would run as soon as she started to have an accident.
A tip for carpeted floors: cover the floor in baby blankets or towels in the rooms you plan to stay in. Whenever Anne had an accident, I could just pick up that small blanket or towel and throw it in the wash, and it helped keep most of the mess off the carpet. I still feel like I need to steam clean my whole house, but it definitely helped.
Saturday showed some improvement but it was a roller coaster of Anne cooperating with sitting on the potty and screaming and crying whenever we set foot in the bathroom, despite the fact that she had told me she needed to go. The first time she fought me like this, I gave in and we went back downstairs...and she had an accident 5 minutes later. So for the rest of the day, whenever she said she had to go but then tried to back out of it, we hung out in the bathroom until she either gave in and sat or started to have an accident. There were times that we didn't leave the bathroom for 45 minutes because Anne has master bladder control and would hold it just to try to avoid sitting on the potty. Fortunately for both of us, I'm more stubborn than she is. But at the end of the day we were getting more pee in the potty than out of it, so I felt like we were making progress.
Another thing that helped other than hanging out in the bathroom (and therefore inches from the toilet in case she started to go) was that I took a baby doll meant for the bathtub and filled it with water and let the water drain out into the kid potty. The drain hole is conveniently located to simulate peeing. So I would let the baby doll "pee" into the kid potty and then I would praise the baby. "Good job, baby! You peed in the potty! yay!" Anne thought this was the best game ever, and I think it gave her a visual to see what we were trying to accomplish. Regardless, she seemed more cooperative after we started doing that.
Sunday was much like Saturday, but with less accidents, and less time spent hanging out in the bathroom before she would agree to sit on the potty. Still a lot of resistance when I would take her into the bathroom though and that was extremely frustrating. Then we went to Kristian's parents' house and Anne walked right in and peed like she'd been doing it her whole life and I felt much better that she got the concept and knew how to do it, even if she was being stubborn. I also discovered that part of Anne's resistance was that she didn't like me just swooping in and pulling her pants down and putting her on the potty. She wanted to be in control so I started telling her to tell me when she was "ready" after we got into the bathroom, and encouraging her to use the step stool. This made a world of difference. The sticker board and glow bracelets also continue to be a huge hit.
Monday morning I felt confident in sending Anne to school in undies, though I was prepared for her to have several accidents (the teachers had warned me that her first week would probably be a little rough). She did ok her first day, but not great. More accidents than anything else. Tuesday was the same. Wednesday, however, she had no wet accidents, only poop. Thursday was the same as Wednesday.
And then today...today I got Anne to poop in the potty and I couldn't have been happier. This time I had to do the naked method. She tried to go, got up, and I just left her undies off because I knew she'd been holding it all day. Sure enough it worked, within 5 minutes she was wanting to go back to the potty. I just reassured her that I knew she could do it and we just waited and it happened. She was so excited to finally get a "poop prize" and she wanted me to read her "Princess of the Potty" book again...and then called herself a "Potty Princess." I think she recognized that she had finally done everything the girl in the book does. Here's hoping that once is all it took to convince her that using the potty for #2 is not only something she *can* do, but something she prefers doing.
She also went potty at the park, and got out of the tub halfway through her bath to avoid peeing in the tub. Today is day 3 of no wet accidents, and day 1 of zero accidents at all. I don't want to jinx it, but I think it might be safe to say that I have successfully potty trained my 21 month old daughter :-) It took about 8 days total (4 of which were at daycare). But I think those initial 3 days were crucial. Granted, we still have night training, but she's been staying dry at night since she discovered she has control of her own bladder. So I'm thinking that might be a breeze...hoping anyway. :-)
Best tip I got : Put her in underwear and go for it. Definitely worked and we didn't have a long drawn out process with pull-ups. Everything else was tailoring the process to my daughter's personality and needs.
I am a happy and proud mommy :-D
Monday, July 23, 2012
Adventures in Potty Training
Everyone has their method for this it seems and I'm absolutely stealing other people's ideas so I'm not claiming to have come up with any of this on my own. Also, no clue if it's going to work or not since we're still in the middle of the process, but I wanted to keep track of how things are going.
Several months ago Anne's Grammy bought her a Disney Princess potty to keep at her house just to introduce Anne to it. By some miracle, Anne (who was only about 18 months old at the time) sat on it and actually peed so I got excited and got Anne her own Dora potty (that she picked out) for our house, as well as one of those little seats you can hang on the side of a real toilet and pop into the seat when needed. The Dora potty may have been a waste of money as it quickly became nothing more than a step stool to get to the sink easier as Anne refused to even sit on it for the most part. But, I kept encouraging her to try it and kept talking to her about using the potty. I think over the past few months there may have been 3-4 total instances of Anne actually going in the little potty either at Grammy's house our ours, but we did get her to sit on it occasionally.
With her second birthday rapidly approaching and knowing that Anne would be moving up to the toddler classroom at school soon, where they potty train on real mini-sized toilets, I started looking around for information on how to go about doing this. Originally I wanted to spend the week of our vacation in early July trying to train her, but our schedule filled up quickly with social activities and I knew I wouldn't have the time; also, her school wasn't planning on moving her up until August. During this time I came across a potty training method on Pinterest that involves 3 days of extensive training that involves letting them run around naked and using big kid undies and you pretty much don't leave the house for 3 days because all you do is focus on potty training. It also encouraged using "potty prizes", one bag for pee and one bag for poop, to help encourage them to use the potty. There was more to it but that's the general gist.
So I found a three day weekend at the end of July and set it aside. Then, in preparation for the Potty Marathon, two weeks before the Potty Marathon weekend I bought Anne a couple of books about potty training for kids (Princess of the Potty, which I highly recommend because it's very detailed and teaches kids the whole method, including sometimes waiting and nothing happening, and accidents; there's a Prince version too) and an Elmo book that plays "potty songs" (classic kids songs with new words about using the potty).
Since we were trying to put her on the potty at home, I asked the school to start working with her and they decided to go ahead and move her up to the toddler class. That seems to be working out fine as Anne was already familiar with the room and the teachers in there.
This weekend we bought her "big kid undies" and a whole bunch of $1 potty prizes (thank you, Target, for your $1 bins). I separated some of the bigger, cooler items into a poop prize bag and some other things like stickers and glow bracelets into the pee prize bag. I left out a big sheet of smiley stickers to use when she at least tries to go; if she succeeds she'll get a bigger prize.
A note about big kid undies: ignore the weight reference on the package, manufacturers are idiots. According to the size chart my 30 lb daughter should be in a 4T, but those would be huge on her as the 2T/3T size fits perfectly with a little bit of room for growing. Buy one pack and try them on your kid before settling on a size.
I started out giving her stickers if she at least tried, and I'm still doing that, but at first she didn't really know what to do with the stickers (and I didn't really want them plastered all over my house). So I bought a poster board and hung it up in her room where she can reach it, and now if she gets a sticker I tell her to go put it on her "Potty Board" and she happily runs in her room and sticks it on the poster. Also, the smiley stickers are hanging out of her reach but in sight in the bathroom, so when she sees them she knows what they're for. She's also very excited about the prize bags but has only earned one bracelet so far, which she may or may not have bamboozled me out of. Not sure if she actually went or not, but after a day of mostly refusing to sit on the potty, I was so happy that she initiated on her own that I let her have it anyway.
Had a quick test run this weekend with the undies because when we tried a pair on Anne to make sure they fit okay, she didn't want to take them off. However, after 3 pee accidents and then pooping in them, which I'm sure felt absolutely awful, she asked for her diaper back. I was happy she tried them out at all, but also happy she was okay with going back to her diaper because I wasn't ready yet to send her to school in undies this week. She's not ready for that yet. Hopefully *next* Monday she will be in undies and we can ditch the diapers except for at night. Not doing night training until I feel like she has a good grasp on daytime trips.
This adventure is as confusing for me as it probably is for her because some days she does just fine with taking trips to the potty and then some days she will refuse it completely all day and then initiate on her own 3 times around bath/bedtime. The refusing is frustrating for me. The one constant that she seems to be good at is right after her bath. I tell her "no pee in the tub" so I think she actually tries to hold it; she always wants to get on the potty immediately after getting out of the water whether she's gotten dry or not. These are the few times I've actually heard it and know she was productive. And I think she's beginning to really notice when her diaper is wet and that she doesn't like it because sometimes she will tell me "Potty!", and her diaper will be wet even though she doesn't want to sit very long on the potty. I don't know if we're just not making it to the bathroom in time, or if she's telling me after she goes instead of before.
I'm just really hoping that by Sunday of this weekend, she's basically gotten it down. I really don't want to have to keep her in diapers, but if she doesn't make any real progress I'll have to. Guess we'll see!
Several months ago Anne's Grammy bought her a Disney Princess potty to keep at her house just to introduce Anne to it. By some miracle, Anne (who was only about 18 months old at the time) sat on it and actually peed so I got excited and got Anne her own Dora potty (that she picked out) for our house, as well as one of those little seats you can hang on the side of a real toilet and pop into the seat when needed. The Dora potty may have been a waste of money as it quickly became nothing more than a step stool to get to the sink easier as Anne refused to even sit on it for the most part. But, I kept encouraging her to try it and kept talking to her about using the potty. I think over the past few months there may have been 3-4 total instances of Anne actually going in the little potty either at Grammy's house our ours, but we did get her to sit on it occasionally.
With her second birthday rapidly approaching and knowing that Anne would be moving up to the toddler classroom at school soon, where they potty train on real mini-sized toilets, I started looking around for information on how to go about doing this. Originally I wanted to spend the week of our vacation in early July trying to train her, but our schedule filled up quickly with social activities and I knew I wouldn't have the time; also, her school wasn't planning on moving her up until August. During this time I came across a potty training method on Pinterest that involves 3 days of extensive training that involves letting them run around naked and using big kid undies and you pretty much don't leave the house for 3 days because all you do is focus on potty training. It also encouraged using "potty prizes", one bag for pee and one bag for poop, to help encourage them to use the potty. There was more to it but that's the general gist.
So I found a three day weekend at the end of July and set it aside. Then, in preparation for the Potty Marathon, two weeks before the Potty Marathon weekend I bought Anne a couple of books about potty training for kids (Princess of the Potty, which I highly recommend because it's very detailed and teaches kids the whole method, including sometimes waiting and nothing happening, and accidents; there's a Prince version too) and an Elmo book that plays "potty songs" (classic kids songs with new words about using the potty).
We read Princess of the Potty when we're hanging out and we sing the potty songs while she's sitting on the potty. I started making a more concerted effort to get her to sit on the potty, and was pleasantly surprised when she preferred the pop-in seat on the real toilet (less mess for me, yay!).
Since we were trying to put her on the potty at home, I asked the school to start working with her and they decided to go ahead and move her up to the toddler class. That seems to be working out fine as Anne was already familiar with the room and the teachers in there.
This weekend we bought her "big kid undies" and a whole bunch of $1 potty prizes (thank you, Target, for your $1 bins). I separated some of the bigger, cooler items into a poop prize bag and some other things like stickers and glow bracelets into the pee prize bag. I left out a big sheet of smiley stickers to use when she at least tries to go; if she succeeds she'll get a bigger prize.
A note about big kid undies: ignore the weight reference on the package, manufacturers are idiots. According to the size chart my 30 lb daughter should be in a 4T, but those would be huge on her as the 2T/3T size fits perfectly with a little bit of room for growing. Buy one pack and try them on your kid before settling on a size.
I started out giving her stickers if she at least tried, and I'm still doing that, but at first she didn't really know what to do with the stickers (and I didn't really want them plastered all over my house). So I bought a poster board and hung it up in her room where she can reach it, and now if she gets a sticker I tell her to go put it on her "Potty Board" and she happily runs in her room and sticks it on the poster. Also, the smiley stickers are hanging out of her reach but in sight in the bathroom, so when she sees them she knows what they're for. She's also very excited about the prize bags but has only earned one bracelet so far, which she may or may not have bamboozled me out of. Not sure if she actually went or not, but after a day of mostly refusing to sit on the potty, I was so happy that she initiated on her own that I let her have it anyway.
Had a quick test run this weekend with the undies because when we tried a pair on Anne to make sure they fit okay, she didn't want to take them off. However, after 3 pee accidents and then pooping in them, which I'm sure felt absolutely awful, she asked for her diaper back. I was happy she tried them out at all, but also happy she was okay with going back to her diaper because I wasn't ready yet to send her to school in undies this week. She's not ready for that yet. Hopefully *next* Monday she will be in undies and we can ditch the diapers except for at night. Not doing night training until I feel like she has a good grasp on daytime trips.
This adventure is as confusing for me as it probably is for her because some days she does just fine with taking trips to the potty and then some days she will refuse it completely all day and then initiate on her own 3 times around bath/bedtime. The refusing is frustrating for me. The one constant that she seems to be good at is right after her bath. I tell her "no pee in the tub" so I think she actually tries to hold it; she always wants to get on the potty immediately after getting out of the water whether she's gotten dry or not. These are the few times I've actually heard it and know she was productive. And I think she's beginning to really notice when her diaper is wet and that she doesn't like it because sometimes she will tell me "Potty!", and her diaper will be wet even though she doesn't want to sit very long on the potty. I don't know if we're just not making it to the bathroom in time, or if she's telling me after she goes instead of before.
I'm just really hoping that by Sunday of this weekend, she's basically gotten it down. I really don't want to have to keep her in diapers, but if she doesn't make any real progress I'll have to. Guess we'll see!
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
So I turned 32 yesterday...
Wasn't the best of birthdays, been sick for several days and quite frankly turning 32 held little to no appeal for me, but it turned out well enough because I have an amazing and loving husband who remembered I love roses and greeting cards and good food, and because I have amazing and loving friends who reminded me they care about me. Not the least of which was the singing phone call from one of my oldest friends. Was good to laugh between coughing. So I guess in the end I can say it was a pretty good birthday after all.
2012 has been a hard year for me, though only a few people knew this. Just a lot of introspection, self discovery, and fighting some internal battles. But thanks to taking a leap of faith recently and putting trust in a woman I have come to love and adore like a sister, I feel like things are starting to finally come together in my head. I'm starting to feel healthier on a mental level than I have in years. And now I have someone to help me fight those internal battles. Somewhere along the line I had forgotten that as humans we need each other's help to get through the hard stuff. I only wish I had asked for help sooner. And I love my husband with all my heart and soul, but sometimes you just need a woman's perspective.
I can't possibly list all the things I've learned in my grand ole 32 years of life, but a few things I learned recently have some weighty importance to me.
1) I have to love my friends for who they are, not who I want them to be. This might mean that some friends are not as close as I would wish them to be because of differences I can't get around, but I can't expect a person to be someone they're not, and I have to love them for who they are. Realizing this has made some of my friendships so much better.
2) Ask for help even if it means taking a leap of faith and putting trust in someone regardless of how terrified I am. If I'm scared, that should be a good indication I need someone to help me through it. Life is not a one woman show.
3) I'm not perfect. I can reinvent myself as many times as I want, but my inherent demons are always hiding in the shadows. Which means I have to fight them back, every single day. If I want anything good in my life, this is not an option, it's mandatory. Refer to (2) above for help accomplishing this.
I always feel like my birthday is actually my "New Year", not January 1st. So here's to making this year better and healthier than the last.
2012 has been a hard year for me, though only a few people knew this. Just a lot of introspection, self discovery, and fighting some internal battles. But thanks to taking a leap of faith recently and putting trust in a woman I have come to love and adore like a sister, I feel like things are starting to finally come together in my head. I'm starting to feel healthier on a mental level than I have in years. And now I have someone to help me fight those internal battles. Somewhere along the line I had forgotten that as humans we need each other's help to get through the hard stuff. I only wish I had asked for help sooner. And I love my husband with all my heart and soul, but sometimes you just need a woman's perspective.
I can't possibly list all the things I've learned in my grand ole 32 years of life, but a few things I learned recently have some weighty importance to me.
1) I have to love my friends for who they are, not who I want them to be. This might mean that some friends are not as close as I would wish them to be because of differences I can't get around, but I can't expect a person to be someone they're not, and I have to love them for who they are. Realizing this has made some of my friendships so much better.
2) Ask for help even if it means taking a leap of faith and putting trust in someone regardless of how terrified I am. If I'm scared, that should be a good indication I need someone to help me through it. Life is not a one woman show.
3) I'm not perfect. I can reinvent myself as many times as I want, but my inherent demons are always hiding in the shadows. Which means I have to fight them back, every single day. If I want anything good in my life, this is not an option, it's mandatory. Refer to (2) above for help accomplishing this.
I always feel like my birthday is actually my "New Year", not January 1st. So here's to making this year better and healthier than the last.
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Bedtime Bliss
Putting Anne to bed last night was one of the most enjoyable moments I have ever had as a Mom.
We've worked out a new bedtime routine that includes nursing her, letting her play on the bed for about 15 minutes, and then having her lay down next to me until she falls asleep (during which time she can continue to play with a toy or look at a book as long as she's laying down). It's working reasonably well as long as I remember to be patient with her and not try to force her to do anything.
Last night when I told her it was time to lay down, she snuggled up to me, laying on her side facing me as I laid next to her. Taking this moment as an opportunity to enjoy the closeness and her willingness to lay there with me, I started asking her yes/no questions about her day.
"Did you have fun at school?" (nods yes)
"Did you get to color today?" (nods yes and smiles)
"Did you get to play with construction paper?" (nods yes)
"Did you play on the bridge?" (shakes head no)
"Did you play in the toy house?" (nods yes)
"Did you sing any songs?" (nods yes, grins, and makes the hand motion that means Itsy Bitsy Spider to her. At which point I sang the song for her, twice, and we had fun giggling together)
I continued asking her questions for several minutes, including naming some of her classmates and asking if she played with them. She grinned extra big when I mentioned a little boy named Junior... uh oh ;-) At one point she just babbled for awhile and I listened and made appropriate comments to encourage her to keep "talking" to me.
It was amazing. We had a whole conversation.
When I ran out of questions to ask her, she wanted to look at some books. I talked about what I saw in the pictures since she didn't want me to read the actual stories. She fell asleep with a book on her chest, still curled up in my arms.
It's these moments that make it all worth it, that make parenting the best thing in the world.
We've worked out a new bedtime routine that includes nursing her, letting her play on the bed for about 15 minutes, and then having her lay down next to me until she falls asleep (during which time she can continue to play with a toy or look at a book as long as she's laying down). It's working reasonably well as long as I remember to be patient with her and not try to force her to do anything.
Last night when I told her it was time to lay down, she snuggled up to me, laying on her side facing me as I laid next to her. Taking this moment as an opportunity to enjoy the closeness and her willingness to lay there with me, I started asking her yes/no questions about her day.
"Did you have fun at school?" (nods yes)
"Did you get to color today?" (nods yes and smiles)
"Did you get to play with construction paper?" (nods yes)
"Did you play on the bridge?" (shakes head no)
"Did you play in the toy house?" (nods yes)
"Did you sing any songs?" (nods yes, grins, and makes the hand motion that means Itsy Bitsy Spider to her. At which point I sang the song for her, twice, and we had fun giggling together)
I continued asking her questions for several minutes, including naming some of her classmates and asking if she played with them. She grinned extra big when I mentioned a little boy named Junior... uh oh ;-) At one point she just babbled for awhile and I listened and made appropriate comments to encourage her to keep "talking" to me.
It was amazing. We had a whole conversation.
When I ran out of questions to ask her, she wanted to look at some books. I talked about what I saw in the pictures since she didn't want me to read the actual stories. She fell asleep with a book on her chest, still curled up in my arms.
It's these moments that make it all worth it, that make parenting the best thing in the world.
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